I was fortunate to know Senator Kennedy for more than 30 years — we shared geography — (Boston — DC and Florida) as mutual touch points — we shared a love of Georgetown and the Jesuits and the Shriver family ,too.
Ted Kennedy was a very funny man. Warm — twinkle in the eye. A hugger. And he never missed an opportunity to ask for something — a donation to a charity — an internship request for someone; a recommendation to Georgetown for someone else — and he always dropped you a line — a personal hand written letter as follow up. I once shared a shuttle ride with him from NYC to Boston — it was a very memorable 75 minutes together talking about poor Irish — Lowell Mass — and his family in DC — and the importance of the Catholic Church to him .
He loved to tease. A few years back — the Capitals were playing the Bruins — Senator Kennedy and Senator Kerry both attended the game and sat with us in the owners box. Teddy sat next to me and was humming show tunes for most of the first period — he was working the room; he seemed so happy. I asked him if he wanted to sing the National Anthem at a game — he told me he was thinking about taking singing lessons.
In between periods — the beauty queen who sang the National Anthem came up to our box to take some photos — Teddy immediately started to organize the photo session — ” Ok — Ted Leonsis — you stand here next to me — Senator Kerry — you stand next to this lovely young woman — now put your arm around her — she seems so shy and scared — Mr Photographer — on three — take the shot” — says Teddy Kennedy.
As we count down — 1 — 2 — Ted Kennedy grabs me and pulls me and him out of the shot — the photographer takes the photo of Senator Kerry and the beauty queen — just the two of them.
Ted Kennedy is hugging me now and laughing — “John — you are a dead man — that photo is going to cost you a lot of votes for me now — Ted Leonsis — you get that photograph and you deliver it directly to me — John — this night is going to cost you dearly — havent you learned anything in your many years of political service as to how to deal with the press”.
Senator Kennedy will be missed. It is the end of an era. He was truly bigger than life.
Great story, Ted. Thanks for sharing.
Love those stories! I’m so glad I got to know him too. Lots of funny moments but best memory – me as 21 year old new Senate staffer with a Make A Wish boy I was helping literally dying in my boss’ office while the boss was in Africa and Senator Kennedy coming to my rescue – that day and every day until the boy died on Christmas Day. I’m very fond of Patrick too and had one great summer working with John Jr. Remarkable family. We should all be so generous with our time….
Dear Ted –
I was feeling very sad at the loss of Sen. Kennedy, all the tributes coming in and the remarkable record in public service on so many issues of social justice, and his clear unwavering patriotism for America coupled with a basic understanding that their is also a greater global brotherhood, and we are in this all together. The sadness was almost too much to bear. Your words and the stories you shared however, make me less sad, have given me the first chance to smile in these last couple of days when I think about Sen Kennedy. I don’t need to think anymore “how sad”, now I can think “how amazing he was.”
Best wishes,
Ken Okoth
Dar Es Salaam, Tanzania
Thanks for sharing your personal feelings of loss. May he RIP.